Last Friday, we went to see Mrs Bookman to discuss fr heart to heart our recent concerns on Boboi..After 1 week school break, boboi was reluctantly going to school. Often, we had a fight in the early morning and boboi kept breaking his promises fr day by day until mommy getting sooo upset. Mommy could just tought 3 possible reasons attribute to this..
1) He is so engrossed at home. Happy to wake up late. He can do whatever he can do. He can wath his dvd or playing games as much as he could provided mom or dad gives him permission
2) He is not that happy at school. He told me quite many times how bored he was in the class. It was tiring. The hours are longer. Sometimes he has to go to the field while he chose just to be in the reading section to chill off and reading books. The teacher sometimes just doesnt bother what he is trying to say. Could be because he may not speak what he wanted to say clearly or perhaps his voice is too slow for someone to catch his words.
3) He is tired. Not getting enough sleep because usually he is sleeping late waiting for his mommy whose still stay up late night to finish her work
SOLUTION:
So, mommy decided heading to Mrs Bookman after told by Mrs Paigement that the school has a family councelor for parents to be able to discuss fr heart to heart their kids's problems. We had about 15 mins talk. My honey also was there so that he could understand how much mommy wanted to sort this thing out. Because what had happened so far, does put mommy to pressure and make mommy's day upside down and feeling unhappy about herself.
We came out with initial strategy to organize more our family time table. Trying to arrange our dinner as early as 6.30 and the kids must have gone in bed early maybe at 8.30. We were given award sticker by Mrs Bookman to encourage boboi stays in track while we in direction to make everything in pace. It is not that easy to make boboi to sleep at his own without my honey's helps for sure. So, we have to work together to make these works. So, another 3 weeks, Mrs Bookman will come to our house for visit to see is there any improvement we made to that extent.
We just hope, our efforts are well worth..boboi will have much fun looking fwd everyday to come to school....
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