Today is gegirl first day staying with nenek Pauline. Pauline is our neighbour. Lonely single mom who is now already in her 60's. Just recently lost her lil bro. I guess, she may be still in her mourning phase. I could remember in our visit at her home, she mentioned to us how awful her feeling was..seeing someone who is younger than her passed away in sadis way..her lil bro commited suicide maybe after feeling so depressed about himself...thinking that he was the burden to the family since Pauline did mention to us, his lil bro was not working but depending to his wife to earn the money since he was unfit. How I can see people with no religion solving their problem in different way than us..
Perhaps, after what just had happened in pauline's family, she decided to join charity and infact, she wasnt asking for more to baby sit gegirl. When we had a chat about 2-3 weeks ago, I begun to learn it is not always money to buy hapiness..I was totally honest to tell her how desperate I was to fine someone to look after gegirl and I was so relief by the fact, she is happy to offer her hands with reasonable price. So, we had to agree for me to pay just for 10pds per day...which I think it really help us a lot..
Back to gegirl first day at Pauline's house..she just cried for a few minutes and then fell asleep. pauline told me..gegirl was sleeping for long hours..only woke up at 1 p.m. I decided to let my eyes blindfold for this..eventhough I dont really like the idea my kids to sleep too long in our baby sister's house. It happens so many time..gegirl seems comfortable to sleep more if she is with someone else rather than us...Just cant complaint more..at least, I've got someone to take care gegirl while I am busy with my work...Gegirl apparently enjoy her day with Pauline. The very first day we visited Pauline to re-discuss, my kids looked comfortable at her home. I was bit worried during that time, thinking if my kids going to mess her tidy hall. She had fresh flowers in her room..which made the guest so welcoming...I like to see as well, her house was clean..at least, I no need to worry too much about our baby sitter hygenity...
Pauline brought gegirl to feed the ducks in the University. Yes, I bet she enjoyed it very much because she likes to be free running everywhere. Before, I was leaving the house to pick up gegirl. We had simple chat and she introduced me to her pal named Pete. Pete is pauline's good friend. They've been knowing each other quite sometimes. We sharing some tips to cultivate strawbery's trees. It was nice to get to know with Pete. Eventhough sometimes, I found difficulty to understand his talking maybe due to his accent or vocubalry. I was recently crapped in speaking English since most of my time just sitting alone in the house and rarely speaking except with my kids. The children also enjoyed eating ice cream..they both competing each other to win to finish the ice cream. Boboi was cheating many times, splatting the ice cream in Pauline's floor and without shy..Boboi open Pauline's fridge..maybe eyeing if he could get something more..Seems to me, everything went well for both party. In fact, Pauline was asking to pick up the Boboi one day from school to bring them to the park...For me it is fine..so does my honey..as long as Pauline is honest to us..I guess I shouldnt be too worry..
Other story for this day. We went to see Dr Hennel for gegirl's arms. Her eczema was getting worse. I shall note we had an appoinment book at 3.40 on 30th of June. Hopefully by that time, gegirl has already recovered...so, no need for us to come to the surgery again and again..
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