Monday, June 30, 2008

Aku kene diet...

Dalam sibuk2 writting ni...tgk2 berat aku naik mencanak2...arghhhhh bosan..bosan...dr 54kgs aku naik jadik 56 to 57kgs...whats wrong with me? Last week mcm2 makanan aku makan...yg tak patut di makan..kat rumah ni pon ade makananan junk..kerepek pisang..yg sebelum2 ni aku makan sampai boyak perut aku dibuatnya...

List makanan last week...

-2 kali seminggu mc donald(itupon makan fries and 1/2 burger and air coke)
-dunkin donut(adela 3 ketul)
-coklat( beberapa ulas)

Nampaknya aku kene serius jaga makan..tapi, selagi kerepek tu ade kat rumah..selagi tu aku asik nak mengunyah...sama gak ngan coklat tu...so, mcmana ni?

SKrg ni pukul 1.15...aku dah succes minum about 1.5L air..so, i just need to drink another 1L lagi...sudahnya asik nak terkencing2...malam ni tataula menjadi atau tidak plan aku nak makan buah saje for dinner...itupon, kalu tak tergoda..sbb konon2nya dinner ni nak masak tom yam..atau nasi goreng...

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

Day 2 in nursery...

Today is gegirl day 2 in nursery..she seems settle very quickly...she cried only a few minutes and then happy with her surrounding. Yesterday, she was sitting on the floor crossing her legs and clapping her hands happily at home which I presume she may gets it from nursery. I am not that worry with gegirl because she is good in making friends. Nor to leave her to someone else to babysit her eventhough for the first time. She is not that fussy..easy eater and not that choosy too. She eats almost everything..vegetables, fruits and pasta..In fact, I noticed the other day, her tummy was a bit bulging maybe too full with nutritious foods. I passed by gegirl room today and the food smell...really makes my tummy rumbly...Thats why I am not that suprise if gegirl has sudden jump of her appetite...

As for boboi..I more than happy for his progress. He is doing very well and I can see he is making an effort as well to sleep independently. He got 2 stickers so far..so, he has to work more to get another 3...for him to get his present. Since, I am the one whose sending the children to school, we have to leave the house much earlier than before. I usually wake up around 7 or 7.30 a.m. Have a shower and then putting the children clothes including have had their breakfast first before leaving home. I can see boboi is happy to be among the earliest children arrive at school..Lets hope...everything goes smooth sailing. I should thank to my honey as well, for his co-operation to accompany the children to sleep. Its really helps us a lot since the children wont settle that quick if they were with mommy..

Monday, June 16, 2008

Nenek Pauline-gegirl day one

Today is gegirl first day staying with nenek Pauline. Pauline is our neighbour. Lonely single mom who is now already in her 60's. Just recently lost her lil bro. I guess, she may be still in her mourning phase. I could remember in our visit at her home, she mentioned to us how awful her feeling was..seeing someone who is younger than her passed away in sadis way..her lil bro commited suicide maybe after feeling so depressed about himself...thinking that he was the burden to the family since Pauline did mention to us, his lil bro was not working but depending to his wife to earn the money since he was unfit. How I can see people with no religion solving their problem in different way than us..

Perhaps, after what just had happened in pauline's family, she decided to join charity and infact, she wasnt asking for more to baby sit gegirl. When we had a chat about 2-3 weeks ago, I begun to learn it is not always money to buy hapiness..I was totally honest to tell her how desperate I was to fine someone to look after gegirl and I was so relief by the fact, she is happy to offer her hands with reasonable price. So, we had to agree for me to pay just for 10pds per day...which I think it really help us a lot..

Back to gegirl first day at Pauline's house..she just cried for a few minutes and then fell asleep. pauline told me..gegirl was sleeping for long hours..only woke up at 1 p.m. I decided to let my eyes blindfold for this..eventhough I dont really like the idea my kids to sleep too long in our baby sister's house. It happens so many time..gegirl seems comfortable to sleep more if she is with someone else rather than us...Just cant complaint more..at least, I've got someone to take care gegirl while I am busy with my work...Gegirl apparently enjoy her day with Pauline. The very first day we visited Pauline to re-discuss, my kids looked comfortable at her home. I was bit worried during that time, thinking if my kids going to mess her tidy hall. She had fresh flowers in her room..which made the guest so welcoming...I like to see as well, her house was clean..at least, I no need to worry too much about our baby sitter hygenity...

Pauline brought gegirl to feed the ducks in the University. Yes, I bet she enjoyed it very much because she likes to be free running everywhere. Before, I was leaving the house to pick up gegirl. We had simple chat and she introduced me to her pal named Pete. Pete is pauline's good friend. They've been knowing each other quite sometimes. We sharing some tips to cultivate strawbery's trees. It was nice to get to know with Pete. Eventhough sometimes, I found difficulty to understand his talking maybe due to his accent or vocubalry. I was recently crapped in speaking English since most of my time just sitting alone in the house and rarely speaking except with my kids. The children also enjoyed eating ice cream..they both competing each other to win to finish the ice cream. Boboi was cheating many times, splatting the ice cream in Pauline's floor and without shy..Boboi open Pauline's fridge..maybe eyeing if he could get something more..Seems to me, everything went well for both party. In fact, Pauline was asking to pick up the Boboi one day from school to bring them to the park...For me it is fine..so does my honey..as long as Pauline is honest to us..I guess I shouldnt be too worry..

Other story for this day. We went to see Dr Hennel for gegirl's arms. Her eczema was getting worse. I shall note we had an appoinment book at 3.40 on 30th of June. Hopefully by that time, gegirl has already recovered...so, no need for us to come to the surgery again and again..

Sunday, June 08, 2008

Mrs Bookman..

Last Friday, we went to see Mrs Bookman to discuss fr heart to heart our recent concerns on Boboi..After 1 week school break, boboi was reluctantly going to school. Often, we had a fight in the early morning and boboi kept breaking his promises fr day by day until mommy getting sooo upset. Mommy could just tought 3 possible reasons attribute to this..

1) He is so engrossed at home. Happy to wake up late. He can do whatever he can do. He can wath his dvd or playing games as much as he could provided mom or dad gives him permission

2) He is not that happy at school. He told me quite many times how bored he was in the class. It was tiring. The hours are longer. Sometimes he has to go to the field while he chose just to be in the reading section to chill off and reading books. The teacher sometimes just doesnt bother what he is trying to say. Could be because he may not speak what he wanted to say clearly or perhaps his voice is too slow for someone to catch his words.

3) He is tired. Not getting enough sleep because usually he is sleeping late waiting for his mommy whose still stay up late night to finish her work

SOLUTION:

So, mommy decided heading to Mrs Bookman after told by Mrs Paigement that the school has a family councelor for parents to be able to discuss fr heart to heart their kids's problems. We had about 15 mins talk. My honey also was there so that he could understand how much mommy wanted to sort this thing out. Because what had happened so far, does put mommy to pressure and make mommy's day upside down and feeling unhappy about herself.


We came out with initial strategy to organize more our family time table. Trying to arrange our dinner as early as 6.30 and the kids must have gone in bed early maybe at 8.30. We were given award sticker by Mrs Bookman to encourage boboi stays in track while we in direction to make everything in pace. It is not that easy to make boboi to sleep at his own without my honey's helps for sure. So, we have to work together to make these works. So, another 3 weeks, Mrs Bookman will come to our house for visit to see is there any improvement we made to that extent.

We just hope, our efforts are well worth..boboi will have much fun looking fwd everyday to come to school....